After reading Chapter 16 in its entirety, answer the following question:
Why do you think people have such negative views of conflict? Do you
think that as people know more about conflict, they fear it less?
Why or why not?
I believe that a lot of people have such a
negative view on conflict because of past experiences. Not everyone knows how
to handle conflict in an ideal way and it is easy for relationships to turn
sour because of it. Most of the time due to the bad past experiences, people
will try to avoid the conflict, afraid that something similar will happen
again. I know that many people do not like conflict because they see how the
issue can be the beginning of ending a relationship they treasure. Also people
do not know how to positively come up with an outcome when they are in a
conflicting situation with others.
It is good for people to learn more about how
to deal with conflict, or conflict issues in general. I think when people know
more about conflict they will fear it less. I can see how people’s perspectives
change once they learn how the outcomes of conflicts can be good for the
relationship. I was one of those people who did not like to be involved with
conflict, but once I have learn more about the subject I saw how beneficial conflicts
could be.
Hey Cyynthhia,
ReplyDeleteI think it is great you have had a personal experience with this change in feelings toward conflicts. I would also say that I have experienced this transition from dreading conflicts, to now understanding them and being okay with them. I still don't find myself looking forward to possible conflicts arising, but I don't run either. I think a lot of people could feel this way as well if they learned more about conflicts and realized how they could be useful in relationships, they may not fear them as much either.
Thanks for posting. **Kenzie Marie
Hey,
ReplyDeleteI just wanted to let you know that you did a great job on your post. As you have stated, you said that people get a negative view on conflict because of their past experiences. I also feel that this is why people have this belief. I feel that this belief affects their behavior, and some people may completely avoid conflict. I also, liked how you stated that when people learn how to deal with conflict, they are less likely to be afraid of conflict. I feel that this is true. If people are educated and know how to effectively resolve conflict, they will have a more positive view, and will be more likely to confront conflict the right now.